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The NOexistenceN of you AND me

PC (Microsoft Windows), Android, Mac • 2024

Should you play it?

Use "game" as a medium to showcase the world of "you/girl". Explore the truth of "you/girl/world" through the form of a "visual novel".

What works
  • Deep philosophical and emotional narrative
  • Meaningful player choices shaping multiple endings
  • High-quality voice acting and soundtrack
  • Unique minimalist art style
  • Affordable price with strong value
Things to keep in mind
  • Short gameplay length
  • Lack of save or chapter select features
  • Some players find narrative confusing or dense
  • Limited replay variety beyond endings
  • No multiplayer or social features

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Hidden Gems

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Each dot is a game. They are arranged from the same motivation profile as in the “Why this game works” section below. Closer dots usually mean more similar reasons to play (exploration, competition, relaxation, etc.)—not that one game is “better” than another.

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Why don’t the axes read like a score? This view uses t-SNE: it only keeps who is close to whom. The scales are not “good to bad” or hours played—they separate groups on the map. Read distance between dots, not the axis numbers (hidden on purpose).

The NOexistenceN of you AND me: Broadly representative of its motivational profile, with a few distinct shifts. Motivations that often define this kind of title include Survival, Violence, Competition, Thrill. Here, the score leans higher than usual among comparable games on Intimacy, Expression. It leans lower than usual among comparable games on Strategy.

Why this game works

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Last update: 01/06/2026